SHAUHAR(HUSBAND) AUR BIWI(WIFE) KE HUQOOQ


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SHAWHAR KE HUQOOQ

1- allah ki nafarmani ke elawa aurat mard ki har baat me uski farmabardari kare

allah ka irshaad hai:

fa-inna a-ta-nakum fa-la tab-ghu alai-hinna sabeela

trans: “agar wah tumhara kaha maan le toh phir un par koi raasta na talaash karo”

rasoollullah(sws) ka farmaan hai:

” jab mard apni aurat ko apne bistar par bulaaye aur wah na jaaye aur wah naraaz raat guzaar de to farishte us aurat par subah tak laanat karte rahte hain”

(bukhari wa muslim)

Aur farmaya

” agar main kisi ko huqm karta ki wah kisi ko sazda kare to aurat ko hukm karta ki apne mard ko sazda kare”

(abu dawood, haakim, sahih tirmizi)

2- shauhar ke maal wa daulat, izzat wa aabru aur ghar ke saare maamle me uski hifazat karda bane

aur rasoollullah (sws) ne farmaya hai

” aurat apne shauhar ke ghar aur uski awlaad ki rakhwali hai”

(bukhari wa muslim)

3- shawhar ke ghar me rahe, uski izazat wa marzi Ke bina baahar na nikle, apni nazar neechi rakhe , unchi aawaz se baat na kare, buraayi se apne haath roke aur zabaan ko gandi baaton se bachaaye, rishte daaron ke saath ehsaan me wahi mamla rakhe jo uska shauhar ikhteyaar kiye hue hai, isliye ki jo aurat mard ke maa baap aur qarabat daaron ke saath acchi nahi hai wah shauhar ke liye acchi kahan hui??

Allah ka irshaad hai:

wa-qarna fi-buyu-tikunna wa-la tabar-rajna tabar-ruja al-jahiliyati al-oola

“aur apne gharon me thahri raho aur jahiliyat ki tarah baanao singaar na karna”

aur farmaya

fa-la takh-zaa-na bi-al-qauli fayat-ma-aa al-lazi fi-qal-bihi mara-zun

” aur baton me narmi na karna jiske dil me bimari hai wah lalak karega”

aur farmaya

“aur momina aurton se kahiye ki apni aankhe jhuka kar rakhen aur apni sharmgaahon ki hifazat karen aur apni singaar ka dikhaawa na karen, ya yah ki jo khud se zaahir ho jaaye”

aur rasoollullah ne Farmaya

” acchi auraton me wah aurat hai jab usko dekhe to tujhe khush kare, use hukam kare to poora kare aur jab usse ghayab ho to apne nafs aur tere maal ki hifazat kare”

(tabrani wa sanad sahih)

aur farmaya

” allah ki bandiyon ko masjid se na roko agar kisi ki aurat usse masjid jaane ki izaazat talab kare to mana na kare”

(muslim wa ahmad)

” aurton ko raat ke waqt masjidon me jaane ki izazat de do”

(muslim, abu dawood, ahmad, tirmizi)

2- BIWI(WIFE) KE HUQOOQ

1- Bhale tareeqe ke saath aurat se nibaah kare jaisa ki allah ne huqm diya

wa-aa-siru-hunna bil-maaroof

” aur un(aurton) ke saath dastoor ke mutabik nibaah kiya karo”

yani jab khana khaaye use khilaaye, kapda pahne to use pahnaaye, uski nafarmani ka khatra mahsoos kare to allah ke huqm ke mutabik samjhaaye, agar kaha maan le to theek hai warna bistar ki judaai akhtiyaar kare, agar is chot se theek ho jaaye to theek warna Mamooli chot aur chetawni(warning) de aur uska khoon na bahaaye aur na maar kutaayi karke use zakhmi kare aur nahi uske jism ka koi hissa tode

rasoollullah(sws) ne ek shakhs ne poocha biwi ke shauhar par kya huqooq hain? Aap ne farmaya:

” jab khana khaaye to use khila, libaas pahne use pahna, uske muh par na maar aur bura na kah aur baatcheet tark kare to shirf ghar ki hadd tak”

(abu dawood)

2- biwi ko zaroori deen ke ahkaam sikaayen agar wah nahi jaanti ya use izazat de ki wah majalis ilm me shareek ho aur ilm haasil kare isliye ki aurat ko apne deen aur ruh ki islaah ki usse zyada zaroorat hai jitni use khaane aur peene ki zaroorat hai, allah farmata hai

ya-ai-yuhal-lazeena aa-manu quwa-anfusakum wa-ah-liyakum naaran

“aiy emaan walon! Apne aapko aur ghar walon ko aag se bachaao”

aur isliye bhi ki rasoollullah (sws) ne farmaya:

“suno! Aurton ke baare me acchi nasihat kubool karo wah Tumhare paas paband ho chuki hain”

(bukhari, wa muslim)

allah ka irshaad hai

al-rijaalu qawa-moona ala an-nisa

” mard aurton par zimme daar hai”

aur rasoollullah ne farmaya:

” mard apne ghar par jimmedar hain aur unki jimmedari ke baare me unse poocha jaayega”

(bukhari, muslim)

agar do ya do se zyada biwiyan hain to unke beech insaaf kare..

Allah ka irshad hai

fa-inna khifa-tum al-la ta-dilu fa-wa-hida tan aw-wama malakat ay-ma-nukum

” agar tumhe khatra hai ki insaaf na kar sakoge to ek hi se nikaah karo ya jo tumhari milkiyat me hai”

apni biwi ka koi raaz na khole aur na hi uske aib ko khole isliye ki wah uska ameen hai aur uski hifazat aur bachaao ka use huqm diya gaya hai

nabi e paak ka farmaan hai:

” allah ke nazdeek us insaan ka maqaam qiyamat ke din badtareen hoga jo apni biwi ki raaz ki baatein dusro se karta raha hai”

(muslim)

1 Comment

  1. Syed Kashiful Haque

    Assalamo alaikum warah matullh,
    Ager bivi is baat par bahas kare ki wo islam ke hisaab se barabri ki haqdar hai or wo kahe ki mai khana nahi banaungi to kiya karna chahiye.

    Allah hafiz

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